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Women and Erectile Dysfunction

Men are not the only ones suffering from the affects of erectile dysfunction (ED). Their female sexual partner has a stake in the male's ability to perform. Her sexual satisfaction is hindered if erectile dysfunction is a bed partner. The female may not understand what is going on if the male is uncommunicative. She may react by becoming confused, angry, hurt or withdrawn. Even if he tries to explain she may still be unsure of what is happening, may blame herself for not being attractive etc. She feels she is to blame because she lacks information about erectile dysfunction. If she knew that most occurrences of ED are directly related to some type of medical issue she would be urging her man to see a doctor for the sake of his health and not be wasting time with self blame.

It is important that the female be involved in erectile dysfunction medical evaluation, as her input will be needed when exploring causes for the ED. A small percentage of ED can have emotional or psychological causes and her contribution to the fact finding mission the doctor will be on, may be invaluable towards discovering the cause of the erectile dysfunction.

Women facing problems have an innate need to talk it out. Her partner may not need or wish to talk at this time. She may find solace in female friends, a family member or a trained counselor who is familiar with erectile dysfunction and the ramifications it causes to the relationship. At some point the man will be ready to open up and discuss what is happening. Some communities even have support groups for sexual issues including erectile dysfunction. There are some Internet groups to join that may offer some support.

Erectile Dysfunction is something that affects men and women all over the world. These groups are generally emotion support groups. Medical advice is usually better left to the medical professionals.

The best thing any woman can do in situations regarding male sexual performance is to understand that the problem is not about the female. If the female starts to blame herself, or feel rejected, or personalize the issue in any way it will cause further harm. If the focus remains on the man, and getting information about erectile dysfunction, then a cause can be determined, followed by treatment and a return to normal sexual relations. Discussions are good, but not in the bedroom. Sometimes you need to put a little space between the problem and the discussion.

One simple rule that really helps when it comes to discussions is to discuss it as a physical problem and not a sexual one. This takes the pressure off the male and keeps it on a level of medical care and concern for his health. Letting him know that physical closeness is important and that you care about him will help him to relax and allow him to be able to listen and to respond during the discussion.